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Synopsis from the Creator:

Two friends. One fake dating scheme. What could possibly go wrong?

Frank Li has two names. There's Frank Li, his American name. Then there's Sung-Min Li, his Korean name. No one uses his Korean name, not even his parents. Frank barely speaks any Korean. He was born and raised in Southern California.

Even so, his parents still expect him to end up with a nice Korean girl—which is a problem, since Frank is finally dating the girl of his dreams: Brit Means. Brit, who is funny and nerdy just like him. Brit, who makes him laugh like no one else. Brit . . . who is white.

As Frank falls in love for the very first time, he's forced to confront the fact that while his parents sacrificed everything to raise him in the land of opportunity, their traditional expectations don't leave a lot of room for him to be a regular American teen. Desperate to be with Brit without his parents finding out, Frank turns to family friend Joy Song, who is in a similar bind. Together, they come up with a plan to help each other and keep their parents off their backs. Frank thinks he's found the solution to all his problems, but when life throws him a curveball, he's left wondering whether he ever really knew anything about love—or himself—at all.

In this moving novel, debut author David Yoon takes on the question of who am I? with a result that is humorous, heartfelt, and ultimately unforgettable.

Review: Frankly in Love, by David Yoon

[fa icon="calendar"] Oct 14, 2019 9:45:00 AM / by Margrethe

Just for clarity: Frankly in Love is not a romance. Frankly in Love might contain a love story or two, but it is not a romance by the standards we, the genre romance reading populace, live by. However, it is sort of a relief that this was not a romance. This review contains unavoidable spoilers.

Frankly in Love is a coming of age story: big life-changing events with a couple of love stories in the mix (read the content warnings as you need, please). I, a confessed fake-dating addict, read this book because there was the promise of fake dating, with the complication that Frank is dating Brit while he pretends to date Joy. Add the other complication that Brit does not know about the fake dating that is done to appease Frank’s Korean parents who would have a fit if Frank dated a white girl.

In a way, the book can be broken into three parts: 1) racism and fake dating, 2) dating the Korean girl of your parents’ dreams, and 3) life gets hard. And these three parts felt fairly distinct. Racism and fake dating is literally that Frank’s parents are racists towards anyone not Korean and Frank’s secret girlfriend’s family is racist with microaggressions they likely could never see. While secretly dating Brit and fake dating Joy, Frank has a realization on what love is and dumps Brit as he and Joy roll into real dating.

Part two, with the falling in love and being in love, is a pure joy (no pun intended). There’s so much hope and fun in those chapters as Frank and Joy grow closer. And in my heart, as we approached the third part, I knew that my two lovelies would not make it because their lives blew up in front of them because of a variety of pressures and events.

There is an aspect of YA romance where I do not ever believe that there’s an HEA. It’s always an HFN to me because these are kids and they are about to make big changes to their lives, and relationships are hard enough when you live in the same town and have an idea of your future. So the fact that this is not a romance with even an HFN actually resolved my anxiety about what happens when they leave for college because the world is open for Frank and Joy. Except, as with coming-of-age stories, nothing is easy.



Frank’s parents own a convenience store and one night, while Frank and Brit are on a date, Frank’s father is shot in what I believe was intended to be a hate crime (but the motive was covered so fast that I’m not positive). And this is one of the moments that brings Frank and Joy together as he can’t seek comfort from his real girlfriend, but his fake girlfriend (who is his friend) is there. This shooting is what reveals that Frank’s father has cancer, but we learn this much later. And well, the book pretty much ends with his father’s death. This is one of those times when you can see all the paths the book could have taken and then you got the cancer book, and disagree with choices.


It's difficult to state what my feelings are about this book, because they changed with each part. With Brit and fake dating, I was anxious and struggled. With the dating the perfect girl part, I was happy. With the last part, I was sad. If I leave you with anything, I want to reiterate, this is not a romance.



Content Warnings: racism, cheating, robbery, shooting, parental death, cancer


Margrethe purchased the audiobook.

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