--- title: "Review: The Dark Wife, by Sarah Diemer" description: Suzanne recommends The Dark Wife, a lesbian retelling of the Hades and Persephone myth. image: https://www.loveinpanels.com/hubfs/the-dark-wife.jpg --- [![LoveinPanelswhite.png](https://www.loveinpanels.com/hs-fs/hubfs/LoveinPanelswhite.png?width=640&height=225&name=LoveinPanelswhite.png "LoveinPanelswhite.png")](http://loveinpanels.com/) Search ![The Dark Wife Cover](https://www.loveinpanels.com/hs-fs/hubfs/the-dark-wife.jpg?height=500&name=the-dark-wife.jpg) **Title**: [The Dark Wife](https://www.loveinpanels.com/books?id=7053887097) **Author**: - [Sarah Diemer](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?author=Sarah+Diemer) **Heat**: Re **Genre(s)**: [Romance](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?genres=Romance) [Fantasy](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?genres=Fantasy) **Tropes**: [Ward/Guardian](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?tropes=Ward%2FGuardian) [Age Gap](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?tropes=Age+Gap) **Tags**: [Greek](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?tags=Greek) [mythology](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?tags=mythology) [hades and persephone](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?tags=hades%20and%20persephone) [retelling](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?tags=retelling) [lesbian](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?tags=lesbian) [f-f](https://www.loveinpanels.com/booksearch?tags=f-f) **Where to Buy or Read**: [Amazon](https://amzn.to/2ROItha) **Synopsis from the Creator**: Three thousand years ago, a god told a lie. Now, only a goddess can tell the truth. Persephone has everything a daughter of Zeus could want--except for freedom. She lives on the green earth with her mother, Demeter, growing up beneath the ever-watchful eyes of the gods and goddesses on Mount Olympus. But when Persephone meets the enigmatic Hades, she experiences something new: choice. Zeus calls Hades "lord" of the dead as a joke. In truth, Hades is the goddess of the underworld, and no friend of Zeus. She offers Persephone sanctuary in her land of the dead, so the young goddess may escape her Olympian destiny. But Persephone finds more than freedom in the underworld. She finds love, and herself. The Dark Wife is a YA novel, a lesbian revisionist retelling of the Persephone and Hades myth. It won the 2012 Golden Crown Literary Award for Speculative Fiction. # [Review: The Dark Wife, by Sarah Diemer](https://www.loveinpanels.com/prose/the-dark-wife) [fa icon="calendar"] Jan 15, 2019 9:45:00 AM / by [Suzanne](https://www.loveinpanels.com/prose/author/suzanne) - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) This book came to me via a recommendation by author [Cathy Pegau](https://twitter.com/CathyPegau) on Twitter and I'm so very happy we were both in the same digital space that day. I adore Hades and Persephone retellings, not only because Demeter/Ceres is my BFF, but also because Hades is the ultimate bad boy. When done properly, retellings make their relationship a forbidden romance rather than a forced abduction and well, I am here for that every day.  What makes *The Dark Wife* different? Hades is a Goddess, for one thing. She's mysterious but kind. Compassionate with the dead and forgiving of those who act against her. Except for Zeus (I'll get to him). She loves horses and her giant, monstrous puppy, and I don't know how anyone wouldn't fall head over heels in love with her. **Content Warning before we go further: This review mentions sexual assault.** Persephone is cast as young and sheltered, but not naive. The book opens with her in passionate love with a nymph, only to see Zeus (her FATHER) raping the nymph before turning her into a rosebush and disappearing. It's not long before Persephone realizes that when her father says he wants to take Persephone to Olympus, he means to treat her the same as he treats Demeter and every other being he considers less than himself. He's the King of the Gods and he gets what he wants.... until now. Persephone meets Hades and finds herself taking Hades up on her offer to come to the Underworld, where Zeus can't reach her. Persephone has agency, choice, and strength in this retelling. It's a very slow burn, the relationship between Persephone and Hades, both because Persephone's lover has just been turned into a plant but also because Hades wants to make sure that Persephone has time to consider all of her choices. It's very well done, especially with regard to consent and power. All this said, Zeus is an absolute shitbag and I wanted to kill him. He gets what's coming to him, but if anything is going to prevent you from reading this book, it's him. Diemer's prose is lovely and I enjoyed the scenery she created in the Underworld, the characters she developed, and the friendships between women. 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